How to prepare for your first threesome

A native New Yorker––tired and at her wit’s end with the fast-paced life of the city––heads to LA for some peace and ends up in Heaven, living out her favorite Josei manga trope: a MFM threesome.

“So what are you reading anyways,” he poked towards my phone. “You looked like you were in heaven, haha.” I hesitated but decided to be honest, and told him it was josei manga. “Oh yeah, like hentai for women,” he commented. It turns out he had friends who were into actual hentai stories, too, not the hentai you find online, but romance manga with NSFW content. “Does it hit all your fantasies?” Lee laughed. I smiled as I tapped my phone. “Well…I’ve always wanted to have a threesome with two guys, but finding the right guys is just too much work,” I told him. “Most guys I ask seem more interested in reenacting something they saw in a porn video versus helping me act out my fantasy. I know it’s a little selfish, but I really want my dream threesome, so until then, manga will have to do.” 

Lee looked at me intensely, studying my face, observing me in my awkward confession. “Well…how about I help you make that happen,” he said, leaning in towards me.

Have you ever had a threesome? If not, have you ever wondered what it would be like to be with two people (or more) at the same time? Threesomes are often at the top of the fantasy list, but how can you actually have a successful threesome? Sure, a threesome sounds like a good time, however putting a little thought into the plan will go a long way in ensuring everyone’s comfort, pleasure, and feelings afterward.

 

We asked our community what makes threesomes so enticing and how to make the most of the experience. Read below for threesome tips!

 


“Incorporate toys to make sure everyone has something to occupy them at all times.”
Bringing in a few well-chosen toys ensures that everyone has something to keep them “occupied.” Toys can enhance the experience, giving each person a chance to explore and enjoy without worrying about getting left out. 



“Spend a little time working out a plan.”
Spontaneity has its charm, but with threesomes, a little planning goes a long way. Chat with your partners beforehand about what everyone’s excited to explore and where the boundaries lie. Establishing a (loose) plan keeps the fun flowing smoothly and ensures everyone gets the experience they’re craving.



“Communicate boundaries & desires. Reconnect after & stay hydrated!”
“Start slow and check in often.”
Discuss boundaries, preferences, and desires so everyone feels safe and excited. Start slow to savor the anticipation and regularly check in with your partners. Threesomes can be a full-body workout, so have water handy to keep everyone refreshed. Afterwards, reconnect with your partner (or partners!) to share feelings, debrief, and strengthen your connection.



“Having watched my partner get another woman off makes him handsomer to me everyday”
For some, there’s nothing sexier than seeing their partner in action with another. Witnessing your loved one giving or receiving pleasure can add a whole new level of attraction.



“Being sandwiched between two naked bodies = priceless”
Nothing quite compares to being between two lovers – the closeness, the warmth, the thrill of multiple hands and bodies in perfect harmony. You’re surrounded by connection, touch, and a synergy that’s exhilarating.



“Choose your third wisely.”
Adding a third is about more than just physical compatibility. Choose someone you trust, who’s open-minded and shares your boundaries. A well-chosen partner brings excitement without compromising safety or comfort, and won’t make things awkward or difficult later on.



“Where one ends another picks up and on and on and on”
One of the beauties of a threesome is the rhythm – a natural flow where one partner hands off to another, creating a continuous loop of pleasure. Where one touch ends, another begins, making every moment feel deliciously endless.


“Extra Tits, Hands, Limbs, and Tongues”
Threesomes bring a whole new meaning to “all hands on deck.” With three bodies, you’ve got extra hands, lips, and limbs that add layers of sensation and excitement. 


Threesomes blend adventure, connection, and pleasure. With a bit of planning, communication, and an open mind, you can make sure your threesome experience is especially positive.

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