Gift Guide: Words of Affirmation For You & Your Lover
For those whose giving or receiving love language is “words of affirmation”—have you ever heard of a “praise kink”? It’s basically words of affirmation but make it sexy and is especially appealing to those who have a deep desire for validation and a high level of vanity (so what!)
Below, “words of affirmation” taken from erotic stories, for you to gift, regift, and stuff into a stocking. xxx
Call them “good” in a hundred different ways
They are really, really good, so you’re going to have to get creative. But simple is fine to start. Borrow the below:
Another finger slides in, “fuck, you’re such a good fucking girl,” he chokes out. I can tell how bad he wants me from the thickness of his voice. “You’re doing so good,” he whispers into my ear, gentle now, talking me through it. —from “Can You Fuck As Good As You Text?” click to keep reading
See me in my PJs, my work from home attire, or the leggings I put on for the gym. Check out my ass, let your eyes roam me up and down. Say something like, “damn, baby, you look so good.” —from “How To Get Me Wet” click to keep reading
Compliment Their C*nt
If they spread their legs for you, you better thank god and say something really nice, like the below:
His mouth is hot on me but he retreats, again observing the world between my legs, wide open. “What a pretty pussy,” he croons at my vulva. “What a pretty pussy,” he says, between mouthfuls of me. —from “The First Date” click to keep reading
“Your pretty cunt looks ready for more than that,” he says, and I feel my face redden. He’s right, of course. I’m slick and swollen and throbbing; desperate for him, and he knows it. —from “Obedience” click to keep reading
Be Encouraging!
Talk to them like you’re giving forehead kiss after forehead kiss. Tell them they can take all the time they need. Be reassuring, supportive, a cheerleader for their orgasm.
He tells me how good I am, how good I feel and that I am taking it so well, he calls me baby… I am melting. —from “Eden” click to keep reading
She would say, “Get it all out” to my orgasms. Sometimes with her I’d just keep orgasming, it never had a clear ending. I sat on her face, she spit in my mouth, spit in my ass. —from “28th St Diaries” click to keep reading
Express Desire for Them
There are so many ways to say I want you, I need you, I can’t get enough of you. Just make sure you say it over, and over, and over again.
Soft and sudden, this is what we had both been wanting for a while now. Yes sex, yes fucking, yes lust, yes flesh, and yes being as close as fucking possible, yes something to do with our souls. I kept stroking, making him moan in my mouth. “Baby I’ve been wanting you so bad I’ve been touching myself nonstop.” —from “Limerence is Bliss” click to keep reading
We’d held hands in the theater, then outside my apartment, we’d sat on the curb under the streetlight and talked til two in the morning. When he finally rose to say goodbye, he stared at me, and like two magnets pulled toward one another, we kissed, simply and deeply. He texted me the next day: I want more of you. —from “The Sex Tape” click to keep reading