What is cucking and why do people enjoy it?
Cucking can be a bold addition to a non-monogamous relationship. But what does it mean?
A cuckold is someone who takes pleasure in watching or hearing about their partner having sex with someone else. But it can go beyond just hearing or watching their partner engaging in sex. Some people into cucking may get turned on by additional aspects of submission, humiliation, watching their partner be with someone they know/are close to—an infidelity fantasy, and so much more. Cuckolding can be an interesting avenue to explore your kinks and fantasies.
Read this snippet from a cuckold story on AURORE––The Server, written from a straight man’s POV.
Now, for the cuck-curious, the cuckqueans*, the cuckolds* and everyone in between, here’s why the AURORE community is into cucking and their cuck fantasies.
*cuckquean: is a term used to describe a woman who is aroused by the idea of her partner engaging in sexual activity with another person, usually another woman.
*cuckold: is a term used to describe a man who is aroused by the idea of his partner engaging in sexual activity with another person, usually another man––a bull.
“My ex asked to hide under the bed while I fucked someone on top of it.”
“Not into it until a v secure ENM relationship, when seeing my partner w/ others became a turn on.”
“I wanna watch a guy make my girlfriend cum over and over as I watch from a close distance.”
“My ex asked me to fuck his 10 inch cock best friend”
“Consensual, not humiliating, cuckquean isn’t done enough!”
“I don’t share but I can be shared.”
“In my fantasy scenario my ex would be the cuck, and I’d be getting down with my new boyfriend”
“I love making my partner jealous so the cuck scenario is a go-to fantasy.”
“The power dynamics involved are intense – there has to be so much trust and a deep desire for sub/humiliation”
While cucking can be a great way to an open relationship or simply bring a third person in once in a while, it is important to make it a safe space for everyone. Here are some do’s and don’ts to keep in mind:
Take it slow:
We tend to build up our fantasies so much that when we get the opportunity, we want to dive head first into them. When thinking of living out your cucking fantasy for the first time, maybe you and your partner can dip your toes to test the waters first and ease into the fantasy.
Make sure your partner feels comfortable and is on board:
Always discuss with your partner first. Understand what their boundaries are and if they are interested in your fantasy. Consent is important in all things sex, no matter how kinky they are or how long you have been together. If they are not into your sexual fantasy, respect it.
Don’t objectify the third person you’re bringing in:
Remember that the person you’re inviting to join you and your partner in the bedroom is also a HUMAN with their own desires and life. Treat them with respect. Discuss their boundaries and fantasies with them before inviting them in.
Safe sex always:
Sexual health is important especially when you are planning to be with a third person. It goes a long way to get tested before and after and use protection as you live out your fantasies.
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