7 Things You Should Know About Fingering A Partner

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Fingering is a delicate art, but with a little intel and a lot of communication, you can master it. We recommend combining fingers with tongue and even toys to vary sensations. And we have lots of inspiration—in fact, we have a whole category of erotic stories featuring fingering techniques. Check them out here and an excerpt from one story below.

Her hand found its way back to my cunt. She slipped her wet fingers inside of me and the fullness was overwhelming.

She moved slowly, so slowly, in and out, in and out of me, with her index and middle finger, lingering on my g-spot. She withdrew her fingers to circle my clit, moving slower than ever, watching me as I got closer and closer to climax, covering my mouth with her other hand to suppress my moans, with that sexy smirk across her mouth. I couldn’t take it anymore—I came so violently that my legs shook against her.

Whether you’re going deep or simply teasing the clit, there’s more to fingering than just technique—like in the story Five Years. Vaginal tissue is delicate and you want to make sure your fingers (and hands) are safe to enter!


We asked our community for tips on fingering and here’s the best responses:

“Wash your hands! Maintain slight pressure on clit, after 💥 begin round 2 asap”
Health first! Always wash your hands before preparing for pleasure. According to our community, diving into round two right after round one is much appreciated. ;)

“Trim your gd fingernails and get rid of hangnails!”
Long nails or hangnails can scratch your partner’s vaginal tissue. Not only is that painful but it can cause infections and other issues. So always make sure your nails are smoothly trimmed and clean.

“Slow, precise, receptive”
Slowly slide your fingers all in. Curve them a bit and do the “come here” motion with your fingers when you hit the g-spot (on the top wall of the vagina) and observe your partner’s response. 

“Lube. Use a lot of lube.”
Lube can naturally be a little cold so try warming it up in your hands before applying it on your partner. The wetter the better.

“Make sure she’s sooooooooooo wet before entering”
Yes! One more time—lube is your friend and oral sex is also a great way to get wet.

“Gentle but firm. Listen and feel her bodily reactions. Kiss while doing it.”
There can be an urge to go hard straight away, but instead, start slow and be gentle. Build up to more firmness and feel how your lover’s body responds, tailor to those responses. With your free hand, try pressing down a bit on the lower stomach area right above the vulva. Putting light pressure there when your partner is close can intensify the orgasm.

”Start so slow and gentle, work up to a rhythm, ask how they want it.”/“Can you handle more?”
Once you have your rhythm, (always) check in to see how your partner is doing before taking things up a notch. Checking in and consent are very important to make sure your partner feels comfortable throughout.

When it comes to fingering your partner, remember to make good hygiene a priority, and discuss what kinds of touch your lover would enjoy.

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